All Good Food Takes Time To Prepare - It's Worth It!
Fitting in and Cooking for Two...
When I first joined Phil's family, I refused to allow myself to even consider remaining on raw foods because it was so very much other than what they all ate. I felt like enough of an outsider already without feeling like I was creating a lot of extra work and kitchen drama (again, my difficulty with claiming 'special needs' for myself). For various reasons, I was disillusioned with Raw Foods at the time, and sensitive to the oft-heard slur that raw foodists were obsessive and spent way too much time in the kitchen. This is a slur that I now want to put to rest.
Over the past year, I started out by trying to prepare the same food for both of us, as far as possible, thinking that I could eat a subset of what Phil and friends/family eat - I could have veggies and meat/fish, and then make all the extra starch/bread/potatoes/cakes for them.
It turned out to be very hard to do this. If I fixed food the way I liked it, it wasn't the way he liked it, which is mostly template and upbringing and familiarity. Texture and even color are so important to him, with some very specific spice preferences also. So, I tried to change my preferences (beyond the global change from raw vegan to omnivore), and learned to fix food as he likes it best. This has been a truly mind-expanding learning experience and has broadened my abilities as a chef immeasurably, and he is a wonderful critic in terms of giving helpful feedback. But it has not worked out as a way of feeding myself.
Epiphany
As my health continued to deteriorate, last summer and fall I began to entertain the possibility that I might have to 'fix my own food separately.' Seems like a no-brainer but for some reason this has always been hard for me. In fact, not having to fix food at all was one of the main reasons why I was so drawn to the 80-10-10/Natural Hygiene approach to begin with. It's ridiculous, because I love to prepare food more than almost anything else: but (until just recently) only for other people. It started with making 'energy bars' for camping trips: Phil's and mine have always been different because I can't have oats or whey or honey (which are three of the basic ingredients in the ones I make him). Salads started becoming a larger component of the meal, and nowadays often all that's 'special for me' is some extra avocado and spirulina with the salad. The epiphany that arrived with the realization that I might need to make food specially for myself was that if I was doing that anyway, I might as well make myself raw foods!
Raw Food Prep Does Not Take Longer
Now, then, having slid back into raw foods and feeling better than I've felt for over a year, I have a solid refresher in cooking and a regular practice of it too. And I have to say: if you're going to cook good food well, it's easily as time-consuming as preparing raw food: sometimes more so! In fact, I'm pretty sure that the way I'm doing things at the moment - cooking for Phil and preparing raw food for myself - is far less time-consuming than if I were cooking two separate things. Preparation and organization are the key in both instances. It's true that dehydrating can take up to a couple of days, but it's a very different process than baking (the end product is far more stable and with more nutrients intact) and worthwhile in a lot of ways. But kneading bread takes quite some time! Up here in the cold, the sourdough bread often needs overnight to rise. I wouldn't consider cooking grains or beans without overnight soaking and then crockpotting for many hours. Some of the less tender cuts of game animals here need to be roasted for many hours. I'm all about extracting all the broth (gelatin, hydrophilic minerals) I can from bones, which requires low-temperature simmering for many hours. If you want the food to taste good and be well digested, it needs time and your attention and energy to be at its best, whether it's raw or cooked food. In fact, most day-to-day raw food preparation is far quicker.
All that said, it's true (as I said above) that I often go super-simple avocado/spirulina/salad. This is partly my own laziness when coordinating the dance with the cooking that I'm doing, and partly because we don't have running water here, which makes cleanup hard enough to put me off making elaborate things every day. I also don't have a high-speed blender, which would make many things within much quicker reach. Still, I make nut milk every few days and it takes about five minutes. In fact, every time I decide to blend up something more 'fancy,' I am enthused by how quickly it can be done.
Take Time To Prepare Good Food, Whatever You Believe is Healthy
In food preparation as in the rest of life, it's ideal to find a balance between preparedness and spontaneity. However, with all the potentially harmful choices available to us in our current 'natural environment,' preparedness is more essential around food and eating, and obtaining clean water, than in many other areas of life. Part of the gift of finding myself in complement to Phil rather than trying to emulate him in every way has been allowing myself to recognize that the above is part of my belief system and that therefore I am committed to being prepared food-wise, so that I can be my best. And in good Pyrrhonian style, I recognize that that isn't so much a part of his belief system, so when he goes out and eats a bunch of candy I need to step away from that as much as I can, allow his own belief system to take care of him there, and suspend judgment.
But that is the real issue: it's not about 'going raw' versus eating cooked food, or 'going vegan' or 'gluten free,' or whatever other non-mainstream choices. If you are going to take responsibility for your health via taking responsibility for your diet, no matter which diet you choose to help you in this, it is going to be more work than buying packages at the store - although, of course, there are very many delicious things that can be prepared in minutes too. Eating out is also going to require more consciousness and vigilance.
It is so empowering to prepare your own food from scratch, which often includes growing the plant/sprout/fruit/root and harvesting it (ensuring you take care of the soil also), hunting the bear, catching the fish. The food is fresher and healthier, you are in closer communion with it and are avoiding all kinds of additives and preservatives, as well as the packaging and shipping costs of getting the food to your store. Note 1: I'm not going to say that it's necessarily a big financial saving: going fishing can be very expensive between motor fuel/bait/equipment, and depending on how much amendment and irrigation your soil needs, growing food has its own cost too. Note 2: I am far from perfect in this regard, and am having to surrender my ideal of eating locally on a constant basis. I'm buying spirulina, avos, veggies whilst we have a freezer full of fish, clams, bear meat from our summer activities - but I'm feeling exponentially better now than when I was trying to base myself off of that…
But even if you buy all of your food, buying raw materials (rather than prepared foods) and preparing them to the taste of yourself and your family is both more deeply nourishing and is a statement to the universe about what you think is important. (And of course, making up large batches, making stuff ahead of time, dehydrating or freezing leftovers, are all sensible timesavers within this.) I maintain that whether you are doing this as a raw-foodist or eating any other way designed to promote your health and integration with the environment beyond the mall, it is going to take more time.
I embrace that time as my gift to myself and to my family - and hope someday, some way, to share it further than that too.
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